So you have a huge crush on someone at school and you’re ready to ask them out, but you’re not sure about it because well, “they’re perfect, they probably already have a boyfriend/girlfriend.” Surprisingly, you will discover that many of the people you like are probably not taken or will soon be single. 99.9% of the time the person you like likes you. It is a fact! No, it really is. My teacher said so. Always believe your college professors that’s why they studied for years. Anyway, I thought that I could tell you some things that are quite obvious in my eyes to know if the person you like is in love or not. I know many of you will probably say, “Dude, just ask them!” Unless you’re an extremely brave and careless person whose nerves never get out when you see her, go ahead and ask her. Maybe he doesn’t think you’re weird for asking such a private question. Maybe you can use this guide before she actually says, “Yes, I have a boyfriend.”
The following applies to the scenario where you talk to your crush and she (or he, but I’m using her) meets you and they talk at work or school etc. often.
The panorama
Cell phone obsession:
It’s 2010 and almost every human being has a cell phone these days. Use your cell phone understanding to find out if your crush is in love. If a person has a boyfriend or girlfriend, they will constantly text, call, or keep their phone next to them at all times. Now, yes, sure the person you are texting could be a friend. There is another way to block your answer. But first, take note:
– Is your crush texting you constantly? Sending too many text messages to the point where he doesn’t even look at you while you’re talking?
– Is your crush always on the phone? Perhaps he is leaving class and immediately grabs his phone and calls someone. Does he pay attention to you or ignore you and hold the phone to his ear all the way to his car?
A nosy wallpaper
Another way to find out if the person you like is to take their cell phone wallpaper. Being nosy may not be a good thing, but you don’t have to put your face on his phone to find out! It has to happen: you two are talking and she puts her phone down. If you’re close to each other, which you probably will when you talk, you’ll easily notice. Just look at it. Don’t look at it! Glazed. At the top you will notice:
A) There is a boy his age or a little older who seems
B) There is a boy and she together, hugging or kissing
C) She is with a girl playing hard
D) There is a picture of her making the fish face or throwing the peace sign
Every once in a while, there are other rare photos of her family members, or maybe a baby that could be hers or her brother’s. If there’s a guy, and he doesn’t look gay, it’s probably his man. You can usually tell when she’s his boyfriend or just a friend. If she is with another girl and they look very friendly, then they are friends. If she has a picture of herself, there you go, she’s in love with herself. All together, many have photos of their boyfriends/girlfriends on their cell phone wallpaper. Why wouldn’t they?
listen wisely
It will happen. They are both walking to their cars after class and their phone rings. She answers as you two walk side by side. Stay still and take note.
– Can you hear the other person’s voice on the line? Is she a woman or a man?
– Grab some phrases, what are they talking about? “Is dad home? I’m on my way.” ~ “Will you pick me up tonight?” or “Tell Jenny not to eat the leftovers!”
– Did he say ‘I love you’ like any other taken person when they hang up the phone with their love?
meet your crush
If it’s a relatively new crush you’re having, it will be easier to get to know the person right away without feeling like you’re reading their journal. Here are some things you can do to start a decent conversation that can lead to more details you didn’t expect to know. Depending on your answers, you will also notice some things in this category.
– If she’s been taken, you’ll know immediately. Most of the time they will mention their boyfriend or girlfriend right away and start a semi-personal conversation. “Once my boyfriend…”
– Do you mention a person a lot?
– Does he talk to you about friends in general? Or maybe he keeps mentioning “this friend” over and over again.
If you hit it off pretty well, you can innocently start a semi-personal conversation by asking opening questions like, “What do you major in?” which more often than not escalate to “Really? So you live nearby?” & then “You graduated from which school?” She pretty much always takes her to talk about her high school friends, or how she was on the high school basketball team, etc. etc Eventually, believe me, she will feel comfortable enough to ask you questions that will allow you to answer them. “What did you do last summer?” – “Last summer I went to Los Angeles with my ex-girlfriend, what did you do?”
How to know if your crush likes you?
Well, this is another topic. Rest assured, your crush doesn’t mind being around you, talking to you, or maybe waiting for you after class to walk you to your car. You can safely say that he likes you ;). If he likes you, he likes you, I don’t know. You’ll have to figure it out on your own, buddy. The key is to notice! Many times the person you like will follow you after leaving class if you don’t expect it.
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