You are on your first date with the date of your dreams. Sex cues from body language to tell you that they are horny for you. Tips on flirting for successful dating game.

1: Looking adoringly. When we are attracted to someone, we all have trouble changing our gaze. Even when the object of our lust has stopped speaking, the lustful gaze still appears. To be a bit provocative, use this to your advantage, and during a pause in the conversation, keep your eyes on your date to the silent count of five. On the contrary, the more often your date blinks, the more nervous she is.

2: Hands. Clenched fists, clasped hands, or hands pressed to the mouth indicate nervousness and tension. Worse still, is if their hands are holding their heads up, as this shows utter boredom, or if they are on the verge of collapsing from fatigue or alcohol. Anxious people tend to

take their own hands or play with objects on the table. Hands placed openly with palms up on the table indicate a more relaxed open person. If you are terribly nervous, try having your hands clasped loosely on the table, as this gives off better vibrations than putting your fingers together or crossing your arms. Putting your hands on your chest while speaking makes you sound upbeat and sincere.

3: Volume of speech. If they consider you their equivalent, their pitch will be neither too high nor too low. Very loud voices tend to belong to dominant personalities and very soft voices drift towards meek ones.

4: Subconscious autoerotic touch. The sexy thought leads us to unconsciously touch ourselves, for various reasons. First of all, draw attention to various parts of the body. Boys and girls will caress their lips and girls will rub their upper arms, thighs, hips, and waist. Second, we touch ourselves to make fun of the other. Third, when sexually aroused, blood runs around engorged limbs, making everything super-sensitive. Touching ourselves then feels good.

5: Mouth. A very strong sexual body language gesture is when your date starts eating, drinking, or smoking faster. Thinking about sex makes you touch your mouth. Putting things in your mouth can imply that you are sexually interested. The girls lick ice cream cones, play with spoons, and suck their fingers.

6: His hair. Interested girls will start playing with their hair. Sprinkling her hair, stroking her hair, and strongest of all, hair movement, are all body language signals of availability or flirting. However, if you start hiding behind your hair, you are showing disinterest.

7: Fiddling Guys. As men become more sexually aroused, they begin to give off their own flirting signals. These can include rubbing your nose, playing with your tie, slipping rings over your fingers, and playing with loose change in your pocket. Adjusting her hair is a sign that she wants to look good to you.

8: Checking your butt. If you catch your date staring at your butt when you get up from the table to go to the bar or the bathroom, then they are having lustful thoughts.

9: Symbolic stripped. Unbuttoning buttons, loosening ties, removing jackets, and rolling up sleeves are all strong gestures of sexual body language. Undressing publicly without realizing it is Mother Nature’s way of getting naked with someone with whom we share sexual chemistry.

10: Touch. Not sure where the date is going? Try the touch test. Touch your hand, arm, or shoulder. Unless they’re shy, they should hit back within 10 minutes if they like you.

On a good first date, there should be three sets of tapping for three seconds each time.

11: The glass of wine. The date is a winner if you rub the rim of your glass with your fingers. Similarly, if you are stroking your glass from top to bottom. If you also make direct eye contact and play with your straw, you are definitely flirting. However, wine glasses held at chest height or higher are a sign that there will not be a second date. Likewise, if your date wraps both hands around your glass.

The wine glass test. This is a great subconscious body language test to gauge that first date. Start playing with an object on your side of the table, for example: wine glass, spoon, etc. Lean forward just a little bit and move it subtly to the side of your date’s table. Remove your hands, lie down, and keep talking. If your date absentmindedly turns you down, you’re not interested. If they leave it where it is, or retain it, you’re in luck. To take it further, push another object in its path and leave your arms on the table. The interested date will now also lean forward and push something from their side of the table towards you.

12: Kiss, kiss. These are all strong signs that your date is receptive to a kiss: touching her mouth, licking her lips, bringing her head to yours, eating and drinking seductively, and tilting her head while looking at you.

Begin the kiss with a light, gentle brush against your lips. If he backs up, purses his lips, or slaps you, you must stop! If they lean in, part their lips, or touch the back of your neck, they’ll be happy to continue.

The art of flirting through non-verbal communication has never been easier! Use this dating tip to interpret body language and send your own sexual signals. Flirt that first date with a second date!

Happy flirting! Coco Swan.