I dared to do it. She couldn’t think of any reason not to at least try. I was amazed at how easy it was to set up and start making money.

Sounds good right? Well that part is completely true, it is easy to set up and start a phone sex business. It’s fun, exciting and very good for your ego. All the things you can imagine about having a secret identity, a nocturnal world of fetishes, kinks, mysterious men who have secrets they need to share with SOMEONE. I can go on for months telling you all the positive things about the phone sex business. I can go on for years telling you anecdotes and tidbits from the ‘other side’, and maybe one day I’ll sit down and write it all down. Maybe, but probably not.

I should add that there are also many reasons NOT to start a phone sex business.

• Moral reasons (they don’t seem as valid to me as to someone else),
• Time restrictions (vampires sleep more than you),
• Hard work (yes, daily hours of paperwork, website maintenance, personnel/employment issues, advertising and promotion),
• Fluctuating income (summer is slower),
• Friends and family (not everyone can handle going out!)

Now, after 4 years in the business, I don’t think I’m leaving. This fits my lifestyle very well, and certainly yours as well. There are things to consider, do you want to work for someone else, making money over the phone, which is much easier, or do you want to start your own empire and do all the hard work yourself? Oh there is another option, do you want to promote phone sex companies as an affiliate and earn commission for your work? There are benefits to each option, as well as many combinations of options that may work for you. My best advice is to approach it like any other small business; work hard, be smart, keep your eyes and ears open for advice, and always try to learn something new.

I don’t have to tell anyone how to have phone sex, it seems second nature to those who are interested in trying it. me they can tell you, if you really think you need to be told. I suppose it would be like leaving the training wheels on your two-wheeler even though they could have been removed by now.

My best advice to anyone regarding calls is:

• Be honest and candid with your callers. They can tell if you are giving them a line just to spend another 5 minutes of work. Who wants to listen to nonsense?
• Investigate various fetishes, kinks, and fantasies. You don’t have to know everything, but it’s much more profitable if you know something people are interested in talking about. If you are unfamiliar with something, say so up front. The caller will appreciate it, even if they decide to call someone else.
• Do not answer your phone if you are not focused and in a ‘ready to work’ frame of mind. It’s obvious to anyone who calls if you’re making dinner or doing laundry.
• To be professional. Callers sometimes like to talk about other phone sex services. Keep secrets, don’t gossip, and remember to respect the other phone sex workers you know (even the ones you don’t!)
• Don’t fight over callers (it happens!) There are more than enough callers out there, no need for catfights!

I think this is enough for today. I don’t want to do too much in one session. (Oh, that’s my best advice; always leave them wanting more!)