Does the fact that your husband has a friend jeopardize your marriage? Have you ever been jealous of your husband’s relationship or a little uncomfortable if he has a friend? You are not alone and you should be careful with the relationship, especially if a woman leads it. While on the surface there is nothing wrong with inheriting your husband from having a friend, it is what lies beneath your relationship that can lead to problems.

Let’s face it, men and women are completely different and honestly, men for the most part don’t have much in common with women outside of their family. This fact is the same or perhaps even more evident for women. So the idea that your husband has a friend is something to be questioned. Even the most loyal husband has impure thoughts from time to time and if you are having an argument and this friend is one that he relies on information, this can be a time bomb waiting to explode.

Am I saying that all men who have female friends are prone to cheating in some very rare cases? No, but if enough time is spent between your husband and his friend, the odds are 9 out of 10 times that an affair can occur. You should always be vigilant, even if you don’t find your husband’s friend attractive and he says he has no interest in her. This may be the case for him, but you never know that she may have hidden feelings for him or begin to develop a case of attraction, especially if she is single.

I have a good friend who was married and, like many married couples, they were going through a difficult part in their marriage, nothing too serious, but problems nonetheless, well, his wife’s friend who recently got divorced started dating my friend because they shared a taste for the same music. The red flag went up in my mind and I informed him to be careful because he is getting into dangerous territory.

He thought he was exaggerating, since she was friends with his wife. In fact, hanging out and the relationship was started by her innocently at first. When she was married and they hung out as a couple, they laughed that they liked the same music and their spouses didn’t. They always talked about getting together and leaving their spouses behind to see their favorite band as a joke between the two of them.