Breaking up with your boyfriend is very hard to do; but being friends after that is much more difficult. There would be tension and both will not feel comfortable with each other. However, after a while, they will begin to move on and become comfortable with each other’s company once again. Sounds great, right? Not really if you’ve decided you still want me to be with you. So how will you find a way to get your boyfriend back?
Well, first of all, you need to reinvent yourself. Get a new look or try on a new wardrobe. Start exercising to feel good about yourself. Before you confront your ex boyfriend, you need to look better and be more confident. Feeling good will send out a pleasant aura that is sure to captivate you.
As you are friends, it will not be difficult for you to invite him to eat or have a coffee. This shouldn’t make you feel uncomfortable, since it’s just an informal meeting. Of course, you need to put on your best clothes and use a little makeup to look prettier. Maybe, you can add some accessories to match your wardrobe. Don’t overdo it though, unless you want to spoil the mood.
Talk about things your ex might be interested in. If you like sports, bring up recent sports news topics. Listen to their stories and avoid talking about yourself too much. Keep your conversation going. There should never be a dull moment.
After your informal meeting, send her a text message and tell her how much fun you had. Then simply ask if you can go out again next time. If he agrees, you have a good chance of succeeding with your plan. Otherwise, you have to try harder. Do your best to be close to him once more.
You don’t have to stalk him or pretend to be someone else just to make him like you. You just need to be the person he has fallen in love with in the past. Think about how you used to talk and act. Maybe the reason you broke up is because you’ve changed. So you need to work on it.
Get rid of your annoying habits and improve your attitude. Show him that you are capable of improvement. When you get back together, try to talk about your relationship and find out why it didn’t work out. If you see in her eyes that she still has feelings for you, take advantage of it and make your moves. Gently remind him of the good times you had. Try taking him to places he used to go before so he can reminisce about the past.
Just like in the movies, your ex boyfriend needs to realize that he was wrong to let you go. If it was you who caused the breakup, tell him that you deeply regret all the things you did and that you are willing to change for the better. If he was the one who hurt you and you still chose to get him back, tell him that you are willing to put all the bad memories behind you. Talk about the problems that were not resolved and resolve them. Hopefully, this will make them reconcile and become a couple again.
