What is betrayal to you?
Is it pain, deception, disappointment, anger, loss of trust, feelings of brokenness, defilement, humiliation, abandonment, loss of self-esteem, or a feeling of death? Betrayal has a way of stealing your smiles and laughter. It has a way of turning your love into pure hate. You probably remember reading these very words from my first article on betrayal. Well, this description seemed apt for this article, “Betrayed by Society” too.

This is a very moving topic. Some things you will read in my article may make your mind question your own relationship and the society around you. This is your own choice. I write my articles to release my own thoughts on certain issues, nothing more, nothing less. In this article I will use the word “Betrayal” in many ways. You will understand this as you continue reading.

I feel that being betrayed by society is a big problem in our world today. How can it not be? We have porn at the touch of our fingers. We can’t even log into our computers without sex trying to sell you something one way or another. This is a huge springboard that leads to betrayal in so many relationships today. It is even so delusional that women are persuaded to believe that they will get all the positive attention they need by showing off their bodies to strangers. Yes, many do it for money, but many also do it just for attention. They do it in the hope of feeling better about themselves. They will degrade themselves for that moment of cheap monetary acceptance, charging nothing to reveal their most private part. Tell me, where do you see the betrayal? Television has managed to downgrade sexual encounters to nothing more than what I once heard described as a mere handshake. There is no sex related to love when it comes to the world of marketing. This is a very sad equation that has led women to feel betrayed by society. This again is a huge threat against a committed relationship. Even with all the education about the fear of AIDS, which is a torturous disease, the promiscuity is at its highest levels, yet another betrayal.

People now worry and worry less about their partner’s feelings. Oh sure they say they care, but their actions and reactions tend to show otherwise. Just take a look at how many couples you know right now who have already been married more than once, or more. There are very few long-term commitments these days. Why is that? Who told us that wedding vows are no longer important? Who led us to that betrayal? Why do couples give up because maybe their partner doesn’t want to have sex as often as she used to, or she’s just so exhausted after a day as a mother, housekeeper, and in many cases a career woman? ? Who led us to that betrayal? Or maybe your partner doesn’t want to dress like a stripper. Why then is she made to feel bad? Yet another betrayal by creating delusions about what really is sexy. How many times have you felt bad because you felt that you were holding your partner back from certain ideas that he has expressed to you as the most important thing in his desires? Do you see the betrayal here? Society has done this, to men and women.

Some people are very skilled in the art of silent betrayal. They know exactly how to turn a situation around to benefit them, making you fall down and feel like you’re in the wrong. Too many relationships are controlled by either side that has this ability. Relationships can be manipulated to serve one side, with the side always showing outward kindness and naivete. I call it a wolf in sheep’s clothing. Only the person tormented by this highly educated traitor knows that side of this person, which is why many do not even realize that they are victims of a betrayal.

We are dealing with a wide open world where nudity and promiscuity are a very real concern. Couples are challenged every day in the area of ​​commitment. What one might consider a mere glance, another will take seriously and see as a disappointment. One’s idea of ​​a negative environment may be totally opposite to another’s. As one person does not think of being in an environment that could either be threatening or cause a moment of weakness, others will see it as walking into a den of lions, feeling betrayed by society. Men are forced to look at women who are strategically placed in sight and cannot be missed every day. In our very real world, sex sells and is thrown in our faces left, right, and center. Some men see it as a silent bonus. It is justified by the fact that what is presented to them is not under their control. But they have a choice, right? You can choose to ignore it or you can choose to enjoy it! They say that no matter what you look at or may see, it has nothing to do with how you feel about your partner. So I’m asking this, if a couple decides to get out of sexual engagement, does that mean they can justify it by saying that it has nothing to do with their partner and it doesn’t change their feelings in any way? My answer is no way! They have made a choice at that point, a choice of treason. This is a very misleading justification in any form. You can see how easily one can feel betrayed by another.

In a relationship, betrayals are one of the worst attacks, because we as a couple put ourselves in a highly disarmed state through our trust and love for the other person. We as a couple need to communicate more openly so that we have a fair understanding of what the other believes and feels about certain issues. Both must reach agreements on what is acceptable to both. There are always some gray areas, but there are many problems in black and white. Don’t accept things you can’t live with. Some things are just wrong and you have the right to say so. For example, if he is looking at internet porn and it hurts your feelings, you have the right to say “stop” and you also have the right to leave him if he doesn’t stop. Don’t even try to change the things that can’t be changed, but change what you can. Situations can be created or avoided and relationships can change. Finish them off if necessary. Society will betray you if you are not armed as a couple. In fact, you must fight to stay together, because society will fight to separate you.

The following is TRUE for all love relationships, regardless of partnership:
It is not okay to have another partner even for a sexual encounter.
It is also not okay to knowingly twist things to suit oneself better, especially when the fact of pain is going to be obvious.
It is not okay to use a partner’s trust and love to betray them.
It’s certainly not okay to try to change your partner to fit the mold you want.
It is not okay to humiliate or belittle your partner in public.
It’s not okay to make your partner feel unworthy because of their inner feelings or thoughts about certain issues.
It is not okay to treat your partner with the slightest bit of disrespect.
It’s not okay to use your partner’s most private thoughts as a weapon in battle.
It’s not okay to control or float over your partner to the point that they feel the need to run away.
It’s not okay to take and not give back in the love department.
It is not okay to think that your partner can read your mind.
It is not okay to distrust your partner without just cause.
It’s not okay to deliberately go out of your way to pay back, so to speak.
It is not right to blame everything on society. Some choices are made.

All of these are a definitive site, one that every couple must follow to the letter. To avoid being betrayed by society, you must be open and honest with your partner. Love your partner like you will never love another. Giving love is receiving love.

Betrayal is a very ugly word as it is in its action and results. Avoid it at all costs, it’s never worth it. Now go and hug your partner and never, ever use the art of betrayal to gain anything.