From a new generation of motivators, America’s Attitude Coach
Ray Pelletier gives you a practical guide to translate
your personal mission in concrete action. to do today
your January 1. Say goodbye to negative thoughts and
change your life by giving yourself Permission to Win.

talking to champions

Misperceptions of ourselves are formed early in life.
childhood and can stay with us for the rest of our lives,
unless we make an effort to change and have a winner
attitude.

decide to win

The first step to winning is: You need to Decide to win.
Your January 1 marks the day you decide to restructure
your way of thinking and escape from every cell you
others have confined or limited you.

What is winning?

Winning is recognizing one of the greatest truths of life:
“No matter what happens to you, only what you do
with what happens to you!” – a winner is someone who
knows how to overcome adversity.

Goals and Missions

Your mission refers to your reason for being on earth,
your purpose in life. We all need a vision and a mission.
that reflects our unique talents and desires. Is
something that eats away at us and it is the inner voice that
it tells us what we should be doing with our time.

Some of the unhappiest people are those who never get
goals for themselves and continue to work at a job that
hate, or stay in a dead end relationship. Thesis
people delude themselves with higher personal fulfillment
and inner peace.

Attitude – the Magic of Mental Coaching

You need to find yourself a coach. where can you find the
best coach? Look in the mirror. If you’re going to be a
long-term winner, you have to access your subconscious
mind and reprogram it with positive thoughts and
experiences that will keep you on top!
If you have been programmed to think you are a loser and
will never amount to much, chances are that’s what you
will convert You can reprogram yourself to think that
you are a winner.

learning makes it happen

You are responsible to yourself to get the best education.
to prepare you for your dream. Please note that many
cases of “overnight success” actually took years to
achieve.
Remember: winners never stop learning.

Communicating – the center of the wheel

Winners follow these principles of effective communication:
1. Think before you speak.
2. Keep control of your emotions and be positive,
Open-minded and respectful of the opinions of others.
3. When communicating with others: Be courteous. Whose
interrupt. Be attentive.
4. When you have something to say, start by listening.
5. KISS – Keep it simple, Simon! this means great
communicators use clear, simple, concise and direct language
language. Nobody likes a pretentious person who only uses
big words and likes to sound superior.
6. Raising your voice unnecessarily can be interpreted as
a sign of anger or frustration and should be avoided in
each instance. Stay focused on your goal.

family and personal relationships

Winners can weather a storm and come out fine. Yew
your spouse has left you, it may be time to put on a
winner hat and move on. Create your new life and not
get bogged down in depression and lack of activity. Remember,
we can’t adjust the wind, but we can adjust the sails.

Earn in the workplace

Always remember: you are responsible for your own
career. Your attitude is everything. leave
your work luggage outside the door when you get home.
Also, leave your personal luggage outside the door
when you arrive at your workplace. In real life we ​​do
the mistake of taking our work problems home, and our
problems from home to work.

surrender

All human beings, no matter what religion they belong to,
find happiness and fulfillment in a way of giving or
charity. It is when we are helping others that we feel lighter,
and happy. Choose a cause that interests you and fits
your talent and unique profile. This will add a new meaning.
to your life

tax fitness

Yes, you CAN attend to earn a living AND work at
your personal mission. Few of us are rich enough or
lucky enough to just chase our dreams without
thinking about where we will get our funding. take a
daily effort to schedule a part of your day at
his personal dream job, and another to pay the
rent.

The water of life

This probably involves the most important spokes in the
Circle or Wheel of Life. The water of life refers to the
three essential spokes of the Circle of Life:

1. The spiritual

2. Physical fitness

3.Leisure

We should all make room for these activities.
permission to win

1. Free yourself from self-imposed restrictions and open
your mind to the potential of a champion.

2. Don’t let the loss of a job, a relationship, or a
sickness takes away your strength.

3. The good thing about human beings is their capacity
to overcome adversity.

4. Give yourself permission to win and start today!

5. Take five seconds to go to a mirror and tell yourself
out loud and firm: “I give you permission to win.”

Key thoughts:

“Care more about your character than your
reputation, because character is who you really are,
while your reputation is simply what others think you are
are.” -John Wooden, college basketball coach

“Although they only give gold medals in the field of
athletics, I encourage everyone to look at themselves
and find your own personal dream, whatever it is
be – sports, medicine, law, business, music, writing,
which. The same principles apply. turn your dream
in a goal and learn to attack that goal
systematic. Break it up into dick-sized pieces that
seems possible, and then don’t give up. just keep
Disconnecting it.”
– John Naber, swimmer, four-time Olympic gold medalist